CompatibleFirst Date smarter with CompatibleFirst
Answer 14 mandatory questions on a 1–6 scale (6 = open to all). Each question has a Me value and a Looking value. We normalize, apply your per‑question importance, and compute three scores: Overall, Me→Them, and Them→Me.
Explore Our Questions
See the kinds of questions that power smarter matching. Click any question to try the sliders.
What makes us different
Two‑sided questions (Me and Looking), 1–6 scale with “open to all”, per‑question importance, and transparent scoring.
Two‑sided questions
Every prompt has Me and Looking inputs so preferences and expectations both count.
Per‑question importance
Mark what matters more. The algorithm respects your weights when computing scores.
14 mandatory seeds
Admin‑curated core questions start everyone with signal. Users can add more later.
Safety Toolkit
Photo verification, report flows, and first-meet check-ins for peace of mind.
Contextual Profiles
Beyond photos: goals, rhythms, non-negotiables, and values—front and center.
Privacy by Design
Minimal collection, clear controls, no third-party ad trackers. Your data, your rules.
How it works
Answer. Weight. Match—with three scores you can explain.
Answer 14 questions
Mandatory, admin‑curated. 1–6 scale where 6 = open to all. More prompts can be added later.
Set importance per question
Tell us what matters more. We normalize Me vs Looking and apply your weights.
See three scores
Overall, your compatibility with what they’re looking for, and theirs with you—plus clear rationale.
The math behind the match
Each question has two inputs: your Me answer and your Looking answer. We compare your Looking to their Me (and vice‑versa), normalize 1–6 scales (with 6 treated as open to all), apply your importance weights, and compute three scores.
- Adjustable weights to reflect your priorities.
- Conflict detection (e.g., timeline mismatches, non-negotiables).
- Readable explanations with actionable insights.
Sample score breakdown
Why this works: weights reflect your priorities; explanations show exactly where you align and where you don’t.
What our early users say
Real feedback from real dates.
“We both wanted faith-forward dating. The score breakdown made next steps obvious.”
“Finally a profile that explains the “why” behind a match. Less small talk, more signal.”
“Dealbreakers handled up front—saved time and awkwardness. 10/10 experience.”
Ready to date with clarity?
Join the waitlist to get early access and help shape the future of values-aligned dating.
Frequently asked questions
Short answers, no fluff.
What makes CompatibleFirst different?
Explainable, values-aligned matching with adjustable weights so you stay in control of what matters.
Is my data private?
Yes. We minimize collection, provide clear controls, and do not sell data to third-party advertisers.
Can I change my priorities later?
Anytime. Re-weight values, update goals, and your score recalculates instantly.
When can I try it?
We’re onboarding waitlist users in waves. Join the list to get early access invites.